Unlike many other health conditions, dementia comes on gradually and the early signs are often subtle and easy to miss. Signs of dementia can be disguised as irritability, sleeplessness, loss of confidence or changes in personality. It may be time to find a memory care facility for your loved one if the changes discussed below are affecting your living situation or you have concerns about any of the following:
1. Your loved one’s safety. Confusion or wandering may cause your loved one to get lost or fall. If your loved one has fallen, had a driving accident, or suffered an unexplained injury, you have reason for concern. If your loved one becomes agitated or physically violent or wanders, you have a real safety issue.
2. Caregiver burnout. If a spouse or another family member is providing the bulk of care for your family member with Alzheimer's, the situation is not sustainable and is ultimately dangerous. Over time, the caregiver's physical and mental health will suffer, and you'll have another problem to solve.
3. Memory loss is preventing your loved one from taking care of her health. One of the first things a person who has memory loss will be unable to do is keep track of her medicine. Failing to take prescribed medications on schedule -- or taking too much -- can lead to serious health problems. Dementia also affects your loved one's ability to prepare and eat a nutritious diet.
4. Isolation. You can't take your mom out to eat, shop, or exercise because her behavior is so unpredictable. At the same time, if she doesn't have ways to be active and work out her energy, she's even more likely to be disruptive. Memory care programs are equipped to provide activities and stimulation -- including trips and outings -- that can help your loved one burn some energy without you or others turning to medication to calm her down.
5. Unexplained physical changes. Your loved one may be losing weight because she forgets to eat or gaining weight because she forgets she's eaten and eats again. Hunched posture and moving slowly can be signs that she’s unsure of where she’s going.
6. Hygiene problems. Body odor can provide one of the strongest clues that your loved one is losing the ability to care for herself. Look for other changes in appearance as well, such as unwashed or wrinkled clothes, or even putting clothes on backwards or inside out.
In Allentown, Bethlehem, and Easton there are many families whose loved ones are aging and living with the effects of Alzheimer's disease or dementia. Fortunately for those who have cognitive issues and are unable to live home independently or safely with family members, there are personal care homes and senior living facilities that specialize in caring for residents with Alzheimer’s and dementia. These facilities are called memory care communities.
Memory care communities are licensed as personal care homes or assisted-living facilities in the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania, and they also offer an added layer of service, staff training, and care for residence with cognitive needs. This includes a litany of things ranging from interior design specifications in the layout, furnishings, fixtures, and interior architecture of residence rooms and common areas. All staff members from direct care workers to food-service workers are specifically trained in caring for those with dementia. This also includes knowing how to encourage residents to engage in activities, socialize and provide self care. It also includes training to deal with agitated seniors as well as preventing issues among residents. The activities directors, therapists, and office staff such as the executive director and others have ongoing training to respond to family needs and resident needs around the issue of dementia.
In the Lehigh Valley there are multiple senior housing options for individuals with cognitive issues. Most of these options are attached to other senior living communities that offer varying levels of senior care and assistance. Only a few communities in the Lehigh Valley are stand alone memory care communities that specialize in exclusively caring for individuals with Alzheimer's and dementia. South Mountain Memory Care is the only stand-alone memory care community that is also locally owned by the Wall family of Emmaus. Lehigh Valley residents are proud to have a community of it’s own to care for seniors. The only other stand-alone memory care option is owned by a private equity group.
To tour South Mountain Memory Care call 610-965-7662 or visit southmountainmemorycare.com. South Memory Memory Care is located at 201 s. 7th Street, Emmaus, PA 18049.
Living in the Lehigh Valley we see how families interact, especially the relationships that grandparents have with their grandchildren. Unfortunately, not every child has the opportunity to spend time and really know their grandparents. This is attributed to several factors including having a deceased grandparent, geographic separation, and increasingly more common --- the effects of dementia.
Dementia robs an individual of their personality and dramatically alters the relationships of those around them – spouses, children, and grandchildren. Dementia is particularly painful for those who witness the harrowing transformation from who they were into who they are with dementia. The silver lining is that they had the opportunity to know the individual. This is not true for some grandchildren.
We asked one of the most respected dementia educators in world, Teepa Snow, who trains health and senior professionals across the nation, what advice she has for grandchild / grandparent interaction.
How can families encourage interaction between a grandchild and a grandparent with dementia?
Many spouses and children caring for an aging senior in early stage Alzheimer’s disease or dementia seek resources to help their loved one. As the disease impacts more people, new resources and services emerge. A relatively new concept is a memory care community.
A memory care community is a senior living facility, either a personal care home or assisted living facility, where residents have a semi-private or private suite and receive meals and assistance with daily living activities. This can include help with bathing, dressing, grooming, toileting, and other personal activities. These communities also provide additional services such as activities programming, medical management, transportation and amenities throughout the building including a salon, barber shop, and more. Some medical services can be provided on site by third party medical professionals such are podiatry, physical, speech and occupational therapy.
What sets memory care living apart from assisted living or senior living is that the building, facilities, staff and programming are all equipped and designed to handle older adults with cognitive issues like dementia. Staff is trained in communicating with, prompting and catering to the unique needs of their residents. Activities directors also receive training and offer programming geared toward maximizing the individual’s remaining cognition. Direct care employees must display the right temperament, empathy and patience to work with residents with Alzheimer’s. Simple technique and approaches to care are needed to redirect, encourage, and offer patience to those living with dementia.
Below are questions that are frequently asked about Alzheimer's disease and other forms of dementia. If you suspect that your loved one has cognitive issues we encourage you to seek professional help and a diagnosis. If dementia is present, a care plan will address their needs to maximize the person's life.
What is Alzheimer's disease?
Alzheimer’s disease is a brain disease that slowly destroys memory and thinking skills and, eventually, the ability to carry out the simplest tasks. It begins slowly and gets worse over time. Currently, it has no cure. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common cause of dementia in older people.
What is dementia?
Dementia is a loss of thinking, remembering, and reasoning skills that interfere with a person’s daily life and activities. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common cause of dementia among older people. Dementia ranges in severity from the mild stage, when it is just beginning to affect a person’s functioning, to the severe stage, when the person must depend completely on others for care.
What is typically the first sign of Alzheimer's disease?
Memory problems are typically one of the first signs of Alzheimer’s disease, though different people may have different initial symptoms. A decline in other aspects of thinking, such as finding the right words, vision/spatial issues, and impaired reasoning or judgment, may also signal the very early stages of Alzheimer’s disease.